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Exercise 1
Choose the correct form after would rather to complete each sentence.
Example: She would rather (stay / to stay / staying) at home tonight.
Answer: She would rather stay at home tonight.

I Would Rather: Expressing Preferences in English
We use I would rather (often shortened to I'd rather) to talk about preferences — to say what we prefer to do compared to something else. It is a very natural, common expression in everyday English and is particularly useful at B2 level because it can be used in both simple and more complex structures.
Here are two simple examples to start:
- I would rather stay home tonight. (I prefer to stay home.)
- I'd rather drink tea than coffee. (I prefer tea over coffee.)
In this lesson, we will look at all the ways to use I would rather, including how to talk about your own preferences, how to express what you want other people to do, and how to use it in the past.
The Basic Structure of "Would Rather"
The most important thing to remember about would rather is that it is always followed by a bare infinitive — that means the verb without to.
Pattern:
Subject + would rather + bare infinitive (+ than + bare infinitive)
- I would rather walk than take the bus.
- She'd rather work from home.
- They would rather eat out than cook.
Notice that would rather does not change with different subjects. We do not add an -s for he/she/it.
| Subject | Form | Example |
|---|---|---|
| I | I would rather / I'd rather | I'd rather leave early. |
| You | You would rather / You'd rather | You'd rather stay, wouldn't you? |
| He / She / It | He/She would rather / He'd/She'd rather | She'd rather not say anything. |
| We | We would rather / We'd rather | We'd rather have a later meeting. |
| They | They would rather / They'd rather | They'd rather fly than drive. |
Using "Than" to Compare Two Options
When we want to compare two choices directly, we use would rather … than …. Both verbs after rather and than are bare infinitives.
Pattern:
Subject + would rather + bare infinitive + than + bare infinitive
- I'd rather cycle to work than sit in traffic.
- He'd rather read a book than watch TV.
- We'd rather get a refund than exchange the item.
- They'd rather rent a flat than buy one at the moment.
The structure is very similar to would prefer to … rather than …, but notice the difference:
| Expression | Structure | Example |
|---|---|---|
| would rather | would rather + bare infinitive + than + bare infinitive | I'd rather stay than go. |
| would prefer | would prefer + to-infinitive + rather than + bare infinitive | I'd prefer to stay rather than go. |
Making "Would Rather" Negative
To make would rather negative, add not directly after rather. Do not use don't or doesn't.
Pattern:
Subject + would rather not + bare infinitive
- I'd rather not discuss it right now.
- She'd rather not travel alone.
- We'd rather not make a decision until we have more information.
- He'd rather not be disturbed during the meeting.
This is a very polite and common way to decline something or express a preference to avoid something.
Asking Questions with "Would Rather"
To form a question, we move would to the front of the sentence.
Pattern:
Would + subject + rather + bare infinitive (+ than + bare infinitive)?
- Would you rather eat in or go out?
- Would she rather take the morning or the afternoon flight?
- Would they rather wait or come back later?
You will also often hear would rather used in short answers and question tags:
- "Would you rather walk?" — "Yes, I'd rather walk, actually."
- You'd rather not tell her, would you?
Would Rather + Someone Else Did Something (Talking About Other People)
This is an important and more advanced use of would rather. When we want to express a preference about what we want another person to do, we use a past tense verb — even though the meaning is present or future. This is called a subjunctive-like structure.
Pattern:
Subject + would rather + another person + past tense verb
- I'd rather you didn't mention this to anyone. (= I prefer that you don't mention it.)
- She'd rather her husband came with her. (= She prefers that her husband comes with her.)
- We'd rather the meeting started on time. (= We prefer that the meeting starts on time.)
- He'd rather I told him the truth. (= He prefers that I tell him the truth.)
The past tense form here does not mean the past — it expresses a present or future preference. This is the same idea as the second conditional or expressions like I wish you would…
| Who the preference is about | Verb form after "would rather" | Example |
|---|---|---|
| The same subject (yourself) | bare infinitive (present) | I'd rather go now. |
| A different person | past simple tense | I'd rather you went now. |
Here are some more examples comparing the two structures side by side:
| Same subject (bare infinitive) | Different subject (past simple) |
|---|---|
| I'd rather leave early. | I'd rather you left early. |
| She'd rather know the truth. | She'd rather he told her the truth. |
| We'd rather wait outside. | We'd rather they waited outside. |
| He'd rather not go. | He'd rather she didn't go. |
Would Rather + Have + Past Participle (Talking About the Past)
We can also use would rather have + past participle to express a preference about something in the past — usually when we regret that something happened or did not happen differently.
Pattern:
Subject + would rather have + past participle
- I'd rather have taken the train. (But I didn't — and now I wish I had.)
- She'd rather have studied medicine. (But she studied law instead.)
- They'd rather have stayed at a hotel. (But they ended up camping.)
- We'd rather have been told sooner. (But we were told late.)
This structure is similar in meaning to I wish I had done… or I would have preferred to… — it expresses regret or a past preference that was not fulfilled.
| Time reference | Structure | Example |
|---|---|---|
| Present / Future preference (yourself) | would rather + bare infinitive | I'd rather go now. |
| Present / Future preference (someone else) | would rather + subject + past simple | I'd rather you went now. |
| Past preference / regret | would rather + have + past participle | I'd rather have gone earlier. |
The Contraction: "I'd Rather"
In spoken English and informal writing, would is almost always contracted to 'd. You will rarely hear I would rather in natural conversation — it is much more common to say I'd rather.
| Full form | Contracted form |
|---|---|
| I would rather | I'd rather |
| You would rather | You'd rather |
| He would rather | He'd rather |
| She would rather | She'd rather |
| We would rather | We'd rather |
| They would rather | They'd rather |
Use the full form would rather in formal writing such as reports, academic essays, or official letters.
Important Differences and Special Cases
"Would Rather" vs. "Would Prefer"
Both expressions talk about preferences, but they follow different grammar rules. Compare:
| Expression | Followed by | Example |
|---|---|---|
| would rather | bare infinitive (no to) | I'd rather stay at home. |
| would prefer | to-infinitive | I'd prefer to stay at home. |
| would rather … than … | bare infinitive + than + bare infinitive | I'd rather stay than go out. |
| would prefer … rather than … | to-infinitive + rather than + bare infinitive | I'd prefer to stay rather than go out. |
"Would Rather" vs. "Had Better"
These two expressions both use the 'd contraction, which can cause confusion:
- I'd rather leave now. (= I prefer to leave — it is my choice.)
- I'd better leave now. (= It is advisable to leave — there may be a consequence if I don't.)
Would rather is about preference. Had better is about advice or warning. They are often confused because both contract to I'd.
The Past Tense That Means the Present
As mentioned above, when we use would rather + another person + verb, the verb is in the past simple even though the meaning is present or future. This surprises many learners. Think of it like the second conditional — the past tense moves the idea into the realm of preference or hypothetical situations, not actual past time.
- I'd rather you called me tomorrow. (= I prefer that you call me tomorrow — future meaning.)
- I'd rather she didn't know about this. (= I prefer that she doesn't know — present meaning.)
Common Mistakes
❌ I'd rather to stay at home.
✅ I'd rather stay at home. (No "to" after "would rather" — always use the bare infinitive.)
❌ She'd rather goes by train.
✅ She'd rather go by train. (No -s ending — the bare infinitive never changes.)
❌ I'd rather you don't tell anyone.
✅ I'd rather you didn't tell anyone. (Use the past simple when talking about what you want another person to do.)
❌ He'd rather not to answer the question.
✅ He'd rather not answer the question. (After "would rather not", use the bare infinitive without "to".)
❌ Would you rather to have tea or coffee?
✅ Would you rather have tea or coffee? (No "to" in questions either — always bare infinitive.)
❌ I'd rather have stay at the hotel.
✅ I'd rather have stayed at the hotel. (For past preferences, use "have" + past participle, not "have" + bare infinitive.)
❌ I'd rather than go by car.
✅ I'd rather go by car. (Do not use "than" on its own without a second option to compare.)
I Would Rather: Quick Summary
Here is a clear overview of all the key structures covered in this lesson:
| Use | Structure | Example |
|---|---|---|
| Simple preference | would rather + bare infinitive | I'd rather stay in. |
| Comparing two options | would rather + bare infinitive + than + bare infinitive | I'd rather walk than drive. |
| Negative preference | would rather not + bare infinitive | I'd rather not discuss it. |
| Preference about another person | would rather + person + past simple | I'd rather you waited outside. |
| Past preference / regret | would rather have + past participle | I'd rather have taken the train. |
| Question form | Would + subject + rather + bare infinitive? | Would you rather eat in? |
Key points to remember:
- Would rather is always followed by a bare infinitive (no to) when talking about your own preferences.
- When talking about what you want another person to do, use the past simple — even for present or future meaning.
- For past preferences and regrets, use would rather have + past participle.
- In spoken English, always contract would to 'd: I'd rather, she'd rather, etc.
- Do not confuse would rather (preference) with had better (advice or warning).
Now practise I would rather in the exercises below.
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